i never really wanted to comment on this in my blog. but somehow i think it is getting out of hand so i felt i had to say something! right, firstly, im not here to offend anybody. i only wanted to voice out the unjustice that one of my close friends had been mistreated with.

okay, yes, it is about that. THAT unforgettable and unforgivable incident that happened in the chalet, just 3 days after i've came back. hmph! (uhhh, why do i sound like im like directly involved in this???)

RIGHT. seriously, i couldnt believe how these parents can actually go to such extend. its like, (ok, i will not give the background info) how would THEY felt, as parents, if it were their own daughter who is being accused of something she never did? just because she happened to be the best friend of your daughter it doesnt mean that all your daughter's friends were being introduced by her right? and you have friggin no rights to care about other people's business, not when their own parents didnt even question about their own son/daughter is doing. who do you think you are? you are not even related to them please.

oh, so you've got all that 'evidence' yeah? who would want your fabricated "evidence"? the court? the police? or the evidence you had was only used to frighten matured 16 year olds whom you foolishly thought would buy your story? by the way, do you think the police will care what friends your daughter has made? or what friends your daughter's best friend introduce her? well, maybe your law (who says it is illegal for a child to have a relationship under the age of 16) does.

but do you all know whats so ironic about this? finally we've got a classic example of IRONY (sorry, mr lee, but i think many would agree with me that my version of irony will give a better apprehension of the word) okay, the irony is that both the parents can be considered highly educated people in the society, one is a doctor and the other an educator. see? such personnels that are supposed to be looked up to by many, yet they are the ones who actually resorts to such lowly and childish acts such as threatening their daughter's friend to "protect" their daughter. what kind of example is an educator setting then?? perhaps i SHOULD reveal some background afterall. what is it, what is it that a parent can actually storm into a chalet and demand to look for someone? find this scenario familiar? you know, sometime ago the incident which this parent storm into a classroom and beat up the boy who bullied his son? what? uncivilized you call it? then what about this? uncivilized doctor? hmmm. i didnt say that.

i detest parents who sees their child as the elite one and all the bad things that she'd learn comes from the bad company she is with. oh please, dont give me that kind of crap. your child, has every right to choose the friends she wants to be with. its a personal choice you get it? A CHOICE. dont go around pointing fingers at this and that person and accuse them of being a bad influence to your child because it is fucking not true. your child is old enough to make her own decisions. dont go around asking "why did you introduce ... to my child?" oh great fuck off. it is up to your child whether or not she value ... as a friend. if you deem ... as not worthy to be child's friend, then your child is no better.

and a random thought; i am very disgusted by people who actually push the blame to their friends for their actions, for example "aiyah, mummy you know ... is that kind of person one what. thats why i have to do this this this. " OH YEAH? since im that kind of person then why bothering mixing with me? i do take it to heart when my friends portray me as a bad girl in front of their parents because i take it as a form of personal attack. by the way, this is a separate issue and is not related to the one above. i happened to think of it since it is kind of linked and thus voicing out my thoughts.


I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE IT CLEAR THAT THIS POST IS NOT AGAINST ANY PARTICULAR PERSON.